How do you have more of the love, sex and intimacy you want with women?
It’s a tricky thing to bring two people together with different needs, desires and perspectives. Then add gender differences — the ways men and women tend to communicate, think and feel differently.
All of this can be maddening!
I was interviewed a few months ago. I think it’s one of the most useful interviews I’ve done. I called it: 5 Keys to Communicate with Women For More Love, Sex and Intimacy
Then let me know what is most helpful to you and/or what questions you have!
I recently started something new, so please have compassion for me. I ask for this for myself of course, but also because it’s a great practice for you. It’s not easy to start something new. Whether you’re starting a new hobby or trying a new kind of sensual connection…anything you do that’s new means you’re vulnerably exposing yourself. Which feels risky! What if you’re not respected, loved or wanted? What if you’re attacked, resented, ignored or abandoned? But if you don’t try new things you get stuck in old ruts that may not be satisfying. Taking a risk is often what creates newness and excitement. Since I ask my clients to take risks, I take them too. Drumroll please…. 😉 I want … Continue reading →
Interview for the New Man Podcast Do you wish you could approach any woman, any time, anywhere? Do you get stuck planning the perfect thing to say so you don’t screw up? And how do you let her know you want to be more than just friends? I share my feminine perspective to help all guys — single and married — let go of the mind games and have more confidence, freedom, and connection with the ladies. In this interview: 3 ways to start conversations without using pickup lines Why “getting it right” gets it wrong What makes connecting with women easy When and how to integrate your turn on Dealing with the discomfort of sexual attraction Attracting a quality woman … Continue reading →
In his quest to find authentic love, Damien Bohler examines a date that ended in bed… even though he’s not so sure he really wanted it to. Read my response in the Authentic Man Experiment. … Continue reading →
Kisses have the power to intrigue and inspire. One kiss can easily turn into two. It can heat things up and turn things on. A kiss can be the start of an amazing night in bed or a passionate relationship. But it can also lead to a polite “Good night,” followed by a “Thanks but no thanks,” message the next day. Part of what makes the difference is physical. Moving your tongue fast, slow, deep or shallow, creates different moods and sensations. Your enjoyment creates more spark than if you’re indifferent. These seem pretty obvious. But there is a tricky piece many men overlook that I’d love to bring to your attention. I’ll use my most recent date to illustrate: … Continue reading →