Men tend to come to me looking for more connection, love or sex. What they don’t always realize is how much better the rest of life gets as they become confidently able to turn a woman on and inspire her to say YES, again and again. One of my clients recently told me that since working together, not only did he marry the woman he loved, he also got two promotions and a raise. What amazes me when I work with men is they start to actually HAVE IT ALL, rather than the Either/Or life many men are taught to settle for: Great work OR Great love Money OR Happiness Love OR Amazing Sex You could stop settling or choosing and instead be … Continue reading →
How do you have more of the love, sex and intimacy you want with women?
It’s a tricky thing to bring two people together with different needs, desires and perspectives. Then add gender differences — the ways men and women tend to communicate, think and feel differently.
All of this can be maddening!
I was interviewed a few months ago. I think it’s one of the most useful interviews I’ve done. I called it: 5 Keys to Communicate with Women For More Love, Sex and Intimacy
Then let me know what is most helpful to you and/or what questions you have!
Tomorrow at 10:30am PT I‘ll be on Facebook Live talking about what it takes for men to shift from filling their lives with substitutes to actually being happy, satisfied and inspired — having career, relationships, sex, friendships — everything that make life thrilling! Join us here. I hope you will. You deserve to feel thrilled about your life! With love, … Continue reading →
Yesterday I did my first Facebook live for you. It’s a 35 minute video of power packedsupport on how to: Be unapologetic with your sexual desires Share your fear or shame without pushing women away Avoid suffering alone, without the love or sex you want And more… Watch on my FB page here. If you haven’t yet “liked” the FB page please do so while you‘re there! I’m going to do a few more of these this month and once you like the page you‘ll be notified as they go live. I’d also love to hear your Aha’s and questions. You can comment below the video. With love, … Continue reading →
Here’s a recording of the most important points from The Biggest Mistake that Keeps Successful Men From the Love and Sex They Want webinar. Since we forgot to press the record button (sorry!), Steve and I regrouped to record a video for you where we covered: The Weird Thing You Need to Know About Work Confidence vs. Romantic Confidence (You’ll turn women off quickly if you don’t understand this.) The Critical Difference Between a Woman’s Initial Attraction to You and Her Eventual Sexual Surrender How to Respond to a Woman’s Rejection in a Way That Maintains Your Dignity and Turns Her On at the Same Time How to Feel Insanely Competent With Women the Same Way you Feel Like a Rockstar at Work (This takes ONE mental shift.) You can watch it here!It will … Continue reading →
Many men come to me asking things like: What do I say to a woman so she’ll feel attracted to me? When’s the right time to have sex? How many words should I use in my online profile to make a woman more likely to respond? RULES, RULES, RULES. I don’t like ’em. And I don’t buy ’em either. I just recorded a 5 minute audio about how you can break all the rules for dating and attraction and have more of the connection, love and sex you want. Check it out here: https://www.facebook.com/sexandloveformen/ If you haven’t liked my FB page yet please do so you’ll see these weekly recordings. … Continue reading →
Happy New Year! I’ve heard some people say: “Let’s start the year off right!” This can work if what’s “right” is what’s most fulfilling, inspiring and exciting for you. “Right,” based on other people’s ideas or expectations is a straight path to an unsatisfying, or even hellish life. Let’s start the year by looking at what’s right for YOU: What do you want most this year? And WHY does it matter to you? When you want someone else to participate in your goals and visions (which is often the case), your WHY is often what inspires them to join you. For example… As a woman, hearing a man say, “I want to have more sex!” is very different than hearing “I want to have … Continue reading →
Many men tell me that living without the love or sex they want feels like dying inside. Even men who seem to be happy or have it all together, can suffer with this pain inside. It can range from a light frustration or sense of life being mediocre, to a heavy sadness, heart-break and even hopelessness. I realized there’s something men overlook when they’re struggling to feel fulfilled and alive! I made a recording about it for you. You can find it here, on my FB page. Let me know what you think after you listen. I hope it’s helpful for you! With love, Shana … Continue reading →
I recently started something new, so please have compassion for me. I ask for this for myself of course, but also because it’s a great practice for you. It’s not easy to start something new. Whether you’re starting a new hobby or trying a new kind of sensual connection…anything you do that’s new means you’re vulnerably exposing yourself. Which feels risky! What if you’re not respected, loved or wanted? What if you’re attacked, resented, ignored or abandoned? But if you don’t try new things you get stuck in old ruts that may not be satisfying. Taking a risk is often what creates newness and excitement. Since I ask my clients to take risks, I take them too. Drumroll please…. 😉 I want … Continue reading →
When my client Rich came to me, he was the friend and confidant to many women. But women weren’t choosing him for sex or relationship. People always asked: “How are you still single? You’re such a great guy!” Then Things Changed! A few months into our coaching Rich met a woman who rocked his world. After their first date, where she was totally HOT for him, he marveled: “It was so easy and fun. I’m not DOING the exhausting things I used to do — TRYing to get it right!” Rich had stopped trying to impress women, prove his strength or pretend to have it all together. He’d stopped over-giving and trying to make them comfortable. And women who desired him starting coming … Continue reading →